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It is said that Marriages Are Made In Heaven but marriage is just the beginning of a relation which makes you feel like heaven,post marriage things become quite monotonos, at that time you go through the phase of irritation and frustration.At times you also feel yourself to set free from all bondages,and start fresh,but then again you think about the society and step back and just continue.You need to make a lot of adjustment for a marriage to work,that is the reason you think twice before getting married.

It is necessory for a couple to go through some rules :

*give some space to your spouse
*dont be over possisive
*respect each others views
*dont lie (very important)
*dont nag (complain)
*dont stretch an argument or fight for too long
*start a new day with new thoughts(flush out the old thoughts)
*dont compare
*accept weakness(never target........., it hurts)
*be happy and make the surrounding happier

Nobody is perfect in this world,you need to learn from your mistakes.Marraige helps you do so,any marriage cannot be perfect in the beggining itself,it has to go through a lot of testing times,eventually it gains mastery ,(unless both make a conscious effot for a marriage to work)which in most cases is not possible ending up to failure.

The important bond between a couple is a child,when a child comes in their life again there is a feeling of responsibility,priority,love and togetherness.Marriage teaches you how to ajustment in life ,specially if you are in a joint set up,where you have not only to adjust with your husband but also with your inlaws.Life becomes full of adjustments.Patient and adjustment are a key factor for a marriage to work, which is lacking most of the times.This is not only applicable for a wife in common but also everybody who are involved with the married couple around,which will lead a marriage to a Happily Wed Ever After!!!!!!!!!!!!