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Background
Since 2001 till date,I have been in the field of Yoga. Having acquired Advance Diploma in Yoga, Cert. in Yoga Teachers Training and presently doing Post Graduation (M.A. Phil- Yoga.

Self has gone through the grind of a long (7 yrs) legal hastles ending in a divorce.I wish to help people save their marriage by avoiding the blunders we made in the past.

Every women feels many times that her husband treat her like his private property. She should behave, act, treat, go out etc.according to her husband’s wish. Mostly this happens in every family.
Why man always want his wife should follow his instructions like a puppet? Is it good for a happy relationship? Definitely it is not good, it creates suffocation in relationships.

Suhani is 42 yrs old .a house wife she belongs to a higher middle class family .She came to me for counselling ,she was a little bit confused about her problem but she was thinking for divorce and she wanted to take my help in her decision.
In her first interaction she spoke freely on every issue which bother her. But she was not telling me clearly about those particular reasons which were really problematic in her life.

Groom: Aged about 40yrs, Bride: 41 yrs, Son: Aged about 12yrs

PAST

Salam alay kum

first of all starting with the name of almighty Allah whos most gracious and merciful..

This article refers to the privacy and space required by young couples in marriage.
How to tackle this:

a) If you are staying in a joint family with inlaws, you will most probably have a room at the most for yourself where you can spend some private time.

b) Due to hectic schedules, there are times when you cannot spend enough time with your better half. In such a case, life becomes monotonous and the other partner thinks that you are taking him/her for granted.
Also you cannot talk freely to your partner in fear how the other person may react.

Here is one reason. A very logical reason. More and more couples are finding their soul mates on the internet. Just a few clicks, a few chat sessions on the social chat room and the desire to meet, greet and then marry each other is the mantra. But is this really right. Well, there is no true answer, but statistics shows that these unions are really not the best for the society. The reason is that what is communicated over the internet initially is not really true. And even after meeting up, people don't discount the false information of the past. These false

i got Divorced last year.i have a baby boy, now he is 3 yrs old.in the time of Divorce we went in meditation cell, where court has decided that i can meet to my son once in a month for 2 hr.Hnr.court fixed a place for meeting,besides its i can meet my son every holi & diwali and also on his Birthday. but since last 10 months they are not visiting to my son with me.

i got divorce on 3 april 08 & girl re-maried his old boy frd on 21 st april 08 .he is the same person,whose name written in the compalinet as a bitness in the women cell complaient by the girl ( ex wife ) .

We always read about TIPS FOR A GOOD WIFE. Not for a good husband. Today I am giving some tips for the husbands only .because it is not completely depend on wife to get adjust in the family but a husband play a major role in the adjustment of his wife in his family and in maintaing happy and healthy relations with every family member.

• Tell to your wife the nature of every family member because it is your family and only you know better about each of your family member.So help her to understand every one.
• Try to maintain a balance behavior between your wife and your mother .

Possessive behavior of In-laws & Conflicts.