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Suhani is 42 yrs old .a house wife she belongs to a higher middle class family .She came to me for counselling ,she was a little bit confused about her problem but she was thinking for divorce and she wanted to take my help in her decision.
In her first interaction she spoke freely on every issue which bother her. But she was not telling me clearly about those particular reasons which were really problematic in her life.

And due to them she was looking for divorce, sometimes she told about her mother in laws rude behavior and some times about her husband, it was quite difficult for me also to touch the root of her problem.
After a long conversation I have found that her problem is just her loneliness and nothing else and due to this she was thinking about divorce she was taking a major life decision.

Suhani”s husband was a businessman and he used to get busy in his work Suhani”s son is 18+ now and he got much enjoy with his friends company not with his mom, whole day suhani spent with her mom in law at home it was quite depressive for her because she was not so friendly with her.
When I think about Suhani ,one question always arise in my mind and I ask myself Does Suhani has as such big problem which leads her towards a major decision like divorce? Or some tiny tips for a happening life and positive attitudes towards life can change her depressive life? And I get answer YES.

YES women, if u are also confused and miserable in your life and with your relations than do not think to break the relations but live your old relations differently.

Change your own life style , do something for your self,try to discover your own identity, try to discover your soul,live for yourself .

I have showed Suhani a positive way towards her life and she discovered her self the right path for her life.

Article by
Mrs. Shanu Srivastava
Psychiatric Counsellor