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"Relations” it is a simple and very common word but it is not as simple as we understand,

Practically it is very complex and complicated too. But some relations are very special they can provide soothing feeling to our mind. Sometimes it has become very difficult to understand any relation and it is very difficult to define them in the language of society. But they can be very very special for the person.

Today I have seen this kind of relation one of my close friend she is married and the mother of two younger kids ,she told me that she is in love .it was not shocking for me but when she told me that the guy who loves her he is 15yrs younger than she and he was her very close relative too. It was so shocking for me I was not able to understand her feeling and this relationship.

In my thinking it was very obvious for the boy but It was not digestive for me from the part of my friend.

But my friend was so happy after 14yrs of her married life she was feeling extremely happy, she is feeling like a teenage girl. She did not want to come out from this relationship.

I was very much worried about my friend because she can spoil her married life I wanted to talk her so I went to her home but she was not ready to understand she just wanted to live in this time she said I know my limitations and my responsibilities very well but now I am feeling that I am alive and I have some feelings too in my heart. Her answer was very touching for me I have seen the happiness and shine of her face I haven’t seen it before I was speechless. I came back On the way I have realized that relations are very complex human mind is very small to understand them we can not define relations in societal norms and I could understand one more thing that is U CAN BE IN LOVE IN ANY AGE AND WITH ANY ONE.

Article by
Shanu Srivastava
Psychiatric Counselor